Found: The perfect summer bra (even for me)

The last time I saw my plastic surgeon, I was told I could (FINALLY!) stop wearing a sports bra 24/7, as long as I wore something “supportive” in its place. I never planned on buying new bras for the few months between my mastectomy and expander/implant exchange, since I have no way of knowing if they’ll fit after surgery #2—I woke up one day and thought it would be kind of nice to wear something pretty to feel just a little bit better about my temporary, wonky-looking situation.

Obviously an underwire wasn’t an option (and thank G-d I’ll never have to wear one EVER again) so that narrowed down the options. Then I remembered I had an amazing Negative Underwear bralette from a few years ago that actually survived my pre-mastectomy bra-drawer purge. Even better, I knew I was a size 1, so there was no need to deal with figuring out my band or cup size—or ordering multiple sizes to find the right fit.

I ultimately decided on the Sieve Non-Wire Bra because it was described as offering great shape (although my current situation requires a bra that molds to me) and “surprising support.” The fabric is a soft, substantial, not-too-stretchy mesh, and its breathability makes it perfect for the hot, humid Florida summer. And as someone who’s never been into overly-femme, lacy underpinnings the style is so me.

With so many color options (with matching panties that I have yet to try), it was hard to decide—but I went with a three-pack so the choice was made for me. But alas, after placing my order, customer service reached out to apologize the “Buff” was sold out in my size, so I went with the “Slate” (which made me even happier about my purchase).

Buying these bras was the best move I could have made to get through the summer from a comfort standpoint and for feeling as positive as possible about my post-mastectomy/pre-implant appearance. I almost can’t believe that my second surgery is a month from tomorrow, so the countdown is on—and fingers crossed I’ll be able to wear these bras once this whole ordeal is over, and for years to come.